Thursday, March 27, 2008
Thank You!
When I went back and read what I had initially written about Ramu, I was reminded that the day I met him JD told me that he believed that Ramu was going to be healed one day. At that time, it hadn't even occurred to me to try and do anything to make this possible. I wrote, "Why was I born into the vast wealth of America and these little ones were born into such poverty and their choices are so limited? What do I do with this?"
How amazing that God would have given me at least one answer to this question. Perhaps I was born into America so that one day I would come to India and meet a little boy named Ramu and be able to bring some of the resources of my great nation to his aid. I'm so grateful that my friend Dana jumped on this so quickly and kind of shocked me out of my grief over his situation into action. What a lesson that sometimes God just asks us to pray for others, and sometimes he wants us to act on their behalf.
I truly believe that Ramu is on his way to restored sight. But I still hope with all my heart that you will join me in praying for him. First, pray that he is a candidate for surgery, and that in the three years since his last scans there hasn't been any injury to the optical nerve that would hurt his chances. Second, pray that through this journey, God will be glorified in a mighty way. I pray that the people of that sweet village would not see his healing as a miracle from America, but from the great Healer, and that many more of those precious gypsies would come to believe in the power of Jesus Christ and his resurrection. Wouldn't that be worth way more than we could possibly raise?
My dream is to return to India next year and be able to visit that church again. I want to be able to look in Ramu's eyes and see the love of Christ radiating back at me in place of the complete fear and desperation I saw last month. Oh, please join me in praying for that miracle.
JD told me that day that Ramu has the voice of an angel, and that whenever he hears him sing he is brought to tears. I can't wait to hear him for myself one day.
Monday, March 24, 2008
My Ramu Letter
As many of you know, I recently had the privilege of traveling to Hyderabad, India, on a mission journey with eight other members of my church. My experience there was more than I could have ever hoped for or imagined, and I saw God moving in powerful ways. The people of this amazing country are burned into my heart, and I pray that God never allows the passion I have for them to fade.
One day while we were there, we visited a village church where I met a little boy named Ramu. He seemed about my oldest son's age, probably around 9. The pastor that we were with told us that his name was Ramu, and that he had been blind since birth. His father died a few years back, and his mother is suffering from tuberculosis. We had an opportunity to pray for this family and this precious child, but I had to pull away from the prayer time because I was so overcome with grief. The look of fear on this child's face was unlike anything I have ever seen, and the look of sheer desperation on his mother's was more than I could bear. They so earnestly wanted us to bring healing that day, and we couldn't.
Since that time, Ramu's face has never been far from my thoughts. Through talking with some of the local ministers, I found out that he is a candidate for corneal transplants, and there is a great possibility that his sight could be restored. I wrote about this experience on my blog from India, and my dear friend Dana immediately jumped on it and asked why we couldn't raise money for his treatment. I was overwhelmed by her readiness to do this for a child she had never met, and it filled my heart with a determination to pursue helping Ramu.
All I know at this point is that the initial testing and hospital stay is going to cost $1250. I still don’t know the exact cost of the actual surgery. But even if it's double that number to get it done, I feel like it's easily doable. We all have so much, and if we each give even a little, great things can be done.
I know that you all get hit up for money constantly for one thing or another, so I hope this doesn't just get lost in the shuffle. I completely understand if you can't give right now, but please join me in prayer that a miracle will be done in Ramu's precious life. You can read more about my experience with him at http://leighannswords.blogspot.com/2008/02/namaste-last-day-was-such-long-one-that.html, and I'm attaching a picture of Ramu so you can see him for yourself. He's such a beautiful boy.
Please pray about this. If you feel the Lord leading you to give, please write out a check to Brentwood Baptist Church or BBC, and put the words “India Fund: Ramu” on the memo line. You can drop this off at the church or mail it to Jamie Bennett, c/o Brentwood Baptist Church, 7777 Concord Road, Brentwood, TN 37027. Please do this as soon as you are able to so that we can get the ball rolling. The pastor of the church knows that we are attempting to raise money for him, and he is very eager to see how the Lord provides. What an incredible opportunity to be a part of something so much bigger than ourselves.
If, by God’s grace, we raise more money than we actually need for Ramu, please be assured that what is leftover will go to help take care of his mother’s ongoing medical treatment with tuberculosis, and any other needs that could be met in that sweet church. Their building is supposed to be complete by the end of this month, and a church dedication service is planned for March 31st. I so wish I could be there to see it.
Thank you in advance for giving this careful consideration. I know the Lord will bless you for it!
“The Spirit of the Lord is on me, because he has anointed me to preach good news to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners and recovery of sight for the blind, to release the oppressed, to proclaim the year of the Lord's favor." Luke 4:18-19
Sunday, March 23, 2008
Birthdays and Easter Eggs
I can't believe how fast another year has flown. It stuns me to think that Bradley is now halfway to eighteen. Knowing how fast he arrived at nine, that doesn't seem all that melodramatic to say. I'm trying to slow down and enjoy the moments with them, as they pass by at such a breakneck pace. I know that if I don't make time to listen to him now, he won't make time to talk to me in a few years, and that thought terrifies me.
I pray that you all had a joyous Easter, and had at least a little time to reflect on what it means to serve a God who is alive and actively pursuing relationship with us. What an undeserved and amazing gift. I'm awed by Him.
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Saturday, March 22, 2008
Last night marked two weeks since our return to the States. So it was the perfect time for a team reunion. Ashley opened her home to us, and when I got there I laughed out loud to see the enormous sign from the Meerpet Church Dedication plastered to the front of her house. It was classic.
Thursday, March 20, 2008
Anyway, back to our day of departure. On Thursday morning, we had the privilege of leading around 400 kids at a Sunday school retreat. But this wasn't just ordinary Sunday school. These kids were bussed off to a pretty awesome resort, so they were ready for some fun by the time they got there. This is the sign that greeted us on arrival.
After a word from Pastor Kim Cox, I had the opportunity to lead the kids in a few activities. First, I taught them the words and motions to the song "Great Big God." At this point, they couldn't get my CD to work, so it was just me and the microphone - so not in my comfort zone! But they picked up the motions well and seemed to enjoy it.
I was amazed to get over to the pool and see that the kids had jumped in fully clothed. They don't do bathing suits. It was such a stark contrast of cultures, and I must say a welcome one. They actually had two different pools where the boys and girls were supposed to be separated, but I don't think it turned out quite that way. But it was hilarious to watch the kids playing around with all their clothes on.
After the retreat, we left and headed back towards the hotel. We knew it was time to pack, and we were dreading it. We stopped at restaurant for our last authentic Indian meal. I haven't eaten Indian food since that day, and I'm actually craving it. There's supposedly a few Indian restaurants around here, but I'll have to take Sarah with me so I know what to order. Whatever we ate that day was super spicy, though, and they brought out this really cold yogurt drink to go with it. My stomach disagreed with this meal, but I think it could have been a lot worse.
After a few hours at the hotel, we headed back to the church because we still hadn't had a tour of the orphanage. Last year when Kim and the exploratory team went, the conditions at the orphanage were in desperate need of some help. Thanks to a private donor at BBC, I think $85,000 was sent specifically to help bring up the standards. Each girl now has her own locker, and there was fresh paint on all the walls. Here's a few pics of where these precious 50 girls live.
As we left for the airport around 10:30, we had our very own one-man motorcade. Emmanuel escorted us on his bike all the way. It added a whole new level of terror to the driving to see someone that we knew and loved out there in it on a bike. But he made it just fine, as I'm sure it wasn't the first time he'd braved the roads.
We waited at the airport for several hours before heading out around 2:30 in the morning. There's not really anything to say after that. We eventually got back (well, Nelson a day after us thanks to United's fine planning capabilities.) The rest is history.
I've been so amazed to hear from people who were able to keep up with our trip through the blog. I'm thankful that the tool is out there, and that our trip was able to be much bigger than the nine of us who actually made the journey. I feel that this part of my life is far from over. Now I'm just looking forward to seeing where God takes it from here.
This is Holy Week, and I don't think I've ever been as fully aware of God's saving grace and His amazing love for His children. How else could He have made such a sacrifice for such imperfect people? I adore Him. I hope you do too.
Sunday, March 16, 2008
Anyway, I hope to have caught up through our next-to-last day by the end of this post. So here goes...
On Wednesday, our hosts wanted to give us a chance to do some shopping. Because of the huge beggar problem, there was no way for us to just go shopping in a street market. We couldn't really be outside anywhere without getting swarmed. And it is so pitiful because they just don't give up when you say no. You can get in the van, and they will stand there knocking on the window until you practically have to drive over them. It was so hard to watch.
But because of this, they took us to a handicraft fair that you have to pay to get into. So we were free to roam around and find some souvenirs. The prices are all negotiable, of course, and thankfully we had Solomon and company to help us haggle. There was one shirt that I really wanted that the seller said was 400 rupees. This translates into about $10. But when Sagar tried to bring him down, he wouldn't go below 375. So Sagar says, "Walk away." So we did. We waited on the girls to get back, and then Sanga went over to buy it. She got it for 250! It was awesome. We were so lucky to have them with us.
The picture above is just classic Solomon. This man has more of a servant heart than anyone I've ever meant. He absolutely refused to let us carry our own bags. So I had to capture him standing there holding everyone's stuff. He was just adorable and I miss him very much.
After having my sweet tea, I could have stayed another week. But of course that option wasn't available. There was a bell by the door that you were supposed to ring if you had a good time. It was fun to hear people ring the bell and hear the Pizza Hut guys yell, "Thank You!" It was like an Indian version of Moe's.
This is Pastor David, his wife Esther and their 7-month old baby girl, Jessica. She was a doll, but I could never get her to smile for the camera. I loved watching David interact with her and just shower her with kisses. Some things are clearly universal.
This is the only picture I got of Gishon in action. He was my driver most of the time, and although I thought he was going to kill me more than once, overall I know he was doing a great job. He would smile at us every now and then, as if our absolute paralyzing fear was somewhat amusing to him. He didn't really speak English, but every day I'd tell him thank you and he would give me such a genuine smile. He was just one more reason I fell in love with this country.
I had to take this picture. It was so symbolic of the way these people love one another, and extended that love to us. One thing that we realized very quickly is that the Indian people have no apparent concept of homophobia. Their men will hug each other, walk arm in arm, hold hands, etc., and no one even raises an eyebrow. It didn't take our men long to accept this, and it was awesome to see these Christian brothers from different sides of the planet embracing in such pure and simple ways. I loved it.
Pastor Samuel and Dick hit it off from the very beginning. I think it was the common grandfather bond. It made me smile to see them together every time.
As usual, it didn't take long for the pastor's son to find Laura and keep her busy. They shared a coconut and several games of chase. I think she was worn out by the time we left there.
I know it's going to be hard for you to tell what's going on in these pictures, but it's one of my favorite memories from the trip, from a purely non-spiritual standpoint. After our tour of the center and hearing about their goals and vision, we all were sort of wandering around looking at stuff and just kind of hanging out. There was a cool breeze blowing, and the sun was on its way down, so the air was just about perfect. It was just one of those good-feeling kind of moments.
One of the guys picked up a rock and started pitching it over the hill down at that hole in the roof of whatever the building is there in the second picture. This of course turned into a competition to see who could be the first to hit the hole. Soon we were all grabbing rocks and heaving them down the hill. I don't think any of us actually hit it, but it was a blast trying.
Someone came and got me after we'd been visiting a few minutes and said that one of the ladies serves as their choir director, and would I come and sing with her. So I walked back in her room and knelt down in front of her bed. I held both of her hands and we both sang "Amazing Grace." I was singing in English, and she was singing in Telagu. We were all singing together, and as I mentioned before, I was just overwhelmed with the idea that this was a tiny glimpse of Heaven, how people from all nations will be joining together in song to praise God together. It's definitely something to look forward to.
After we sang Amazing Grace, they wanted to sing "Showers of Blessings." I actually have a clip of this on video, and I'm so excited that I figured out how to get that on my blog. I hope you enjoy it as much as we did, and feel free to sing along. The words may come to life in a new way. They definitely did for me.
There shall be showers of blessings,
This is the promise of love.
There shall be seasons refreshing,
Sent from the savior above.
Showers of blessings,
Showers of blessings we need.
Mercy drops round us are falling,
But for the showers we plead.
Wednesday, March 12, 2008
Back to India. Tuesday morning was our first opportunity to get to spend time with orphans. They have a morning devotional every day at 6:00 a.m. It made for an early morning, but it was completely worth it. When we arrived, the girls were all sitting in the front of the church waiting on us. They were singing songs together and it was a beautiful sound. There are fifty girls in the orphanage, ranging from 4 or 5 all the way up through teens. Most of the little ones didn't know any English, so it was hard to communicate with them other than smiles and squeezes. But they could all sing in English, and it was amazing to hear. Tuesday morning they did several songs for us, including action songs. This was good because we needed a little action to wake up.
Charmaine did the devotional on Tuesday. She spoke about how there are five fingers on your hand, and they are all different. She talked about the body of Christ, and how we are all different as well, but equally important and valuable. She talked about the parable of the talents, and how the man with only one talent should have invested it wisely. Just because you think you may only have one talent, you should commit it to God and use it to the fullest. She did a great job.
After she spoke, I had the opportunity to pray with them. I asked them to all come up to the front and gather around me, because I wanted to be able to touch them. I wanted to pray with them, and not just for them. But even when they came up to the front, they still kind of stayed in a safe circle around me. I couldn't get them to come very close. I realize that there is no telling what these girls have been through, and the touch of a stranger may not be all that welcome. But I just wanted to grab up every one of them and pack them in my suitcase and bring them home. They were just delightful girls.
Sarah had sent gifts for the girls, so after we prayed we were able to hand out pencils, pens, erasers and (the most exciting) Snickers. They were so grateful for these small things, and their faces were just lit up. They thanked us so much that my heart just broke on the spot.
One of the things Sarah's mom told us about was that they buy all the girls new dresses for Easter, and she told us about how much it cost to do that. I'm so happy that we had enough money left over at the end of our trip that we were able to donate the money to buy all the dresses for them. And I plan to continue to send money as often as I can for these sweet girls. They are doing an amazing job with this, and I want to continue to be a part of it.
Once we made it to the top, we had a gorgeous 360 degree view of the city. It was a clear (and hot!) day, so we could see for miles around. It seemed like a great time for a group photo. The folks on the left are Sanga, Megha, Moses and Sagar. I miss them so much.